{"id":6392,"date":"2017-01-30T16:29:05","date_gmt":"2017-01-30T21:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/notstrictlyspiritual.com\/?p=6392"},"modified":"2017-01-30T16:29:05","modified_gmt":"2017-01-30T21:29:05","slug":"feast-famine-finding-middle-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/notstrictlyspiritual.com\/cravings\/feast-famine-finding-middle-way\/","title":{"rendered":"Feast or Famine: finding the middle way"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By the time we end our Cravings journey in a few weeks, Lent will be a few days away. Hard to believe, isn&#8217;t it? And yet, it seems so perfectly timed for this tribe. We can take what we&#8217;ve been talking about here and kick it up a notch, if we so choose. But we can also allow some Lenten wisdom to inform the journey right now, especially as we delve into Chapter 5: Feast or Famine.\u00a0<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Cravings is about finding middle ground. It&#8217;s not an all-or-nothing proposition, where you have to forego favorite foods forever, or starve yourself until a headache sets in. That&#8217;s not a long-term prescription for health or happiness. But there is wisdom in the practice of fasting, and the Church gives us a beautiful template for learning how to live a balanced life. Throughout the Church year, there are seasons\u00a0to fast\u00a0and to feast, and there is &#8220;Ordinary Time,&#8221; when we are likely to be walking that middle way.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever Lent rolls around, I suddenly find willpower I don&#8217;t have any other time of year. Why is that? Because when I combine a sacrifice &#8212; eating in between meals or sweets &#8212; with prayer and a deeper, more significant intention, I am able to hold myself to things I&#8217;d otherwise shrug off at the first sign of chocolate cake in the office kitchen or a bowl of gelato after dinner. Fasting without prayer is just a diet. Fasting or abstaining with prayer, however, elevates it to something completely different.<\/p>\n<p>From Chapter 5:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The emptiness fasting creates will make us more aware of the injustices in the world and of our own comforts and supposed &#8220;needs.&#8221; Think of how often we say, &#8220;I&#8217;m starving.&#8221; Or, &#8220;I need&#8221; a cup of coffee, piece of chocolate, glass of wine, handful of nuts. Fasting helps us begin to distinguish between wants and needs, even when practiced in the most minimal ways.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Can you experiment with fasting or abstaining in some way this week &#8212; either giving up something for the entire week or for one day, depending on your age, health and ability? You don&#8217;t even have to fast from food. You could fast from Facebook or shopping or TV. Intentionally give something up and offer up the sacrifice for someone else.<\/p>\n<p>A reflection from the end of Chapter 5:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>So much of life<\/p>\n<p>is out of balance today.<\/p>\n<p>Too much, too little,<\/p>\n<p>too caught up in the whirlwind.<\/p>\n<p>The world insists we need<\/p>\n<p>more, more, more, more,<\/p>\n<p>pushing us to grab all we can.<\/p>\n<p>But wait. Slow down. Stop.<\/p>\n<p>There is another way.<\/p>\n<p>Only by emptying ourselves out<\/p>\n<p>before God will we find<\/p>\n<p>fullness within ourselves.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/notstrictlyspiritual.com\/2014\/03\/fasting-a-lenten-primer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">HERE&#8217;s the link<\/a> to a story I did on fasting for OSV Newsweekly a while back, in case you&#8217;re interested in more on this topic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By the time we end our Cravings journey in a few weeks, Lent will be a few days away. 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